Dreaming as you do, you move toward becoming more aware that you are dreaming as this is actually happening. You may underestimate how this activity enables you to train your mind. No doubt you wonder what dream control exists and what kinds are desirable.
Consider you can evolve to regulate not only your response to dream content, but also the themes of your dreams. People can learn to work through problems in dreams. You may ask yourself what really is possible? Reflect on three tips to learn self-control;
1) Value your scary dreams. As you learn to face the source of your fear in dreams, you gain a measure of self-control and confidence that carries over to how you function while awake. You begin to realize you exert control over what you think and feel in life.
2) Recognize controlling others is not the answer. Although you may employ magic in dreamworlds and even transform creatures with thoughts or spells, wishing for people to disappear in real life is not an effective solution. Conjuring is not the way to solve your problems. Changing your attitude and perception of conditions is more useful.
3) Rethink your assumptions. How you handle obstacles, conflicts and discomfort in waking life comes back to your assumptions about what is and is not possible. Whether you choose to become a more experienced dreamer and what level of awareness you reach in waking life each influence what you are willing to create and tackle in dreams.