You may dream of a peaceful situation where you always see eye-to-eye with people or, at least feel understood. Yet, it can be hard to keep your spirits up when people you know desire to debate or disagree. What do you do about conflict?
Realize conflict begins and ends in your mind. Accept that you can agree to disagree. No single idea will appeal to everyone all of the time. Each person is at a differnt stage of growth based on life experience. It is not your job to impose your views, prove that you are right or, to educate based on your values. Similarly, you can be tolerant of others without adopting all they say.
You can freely offer your perspective. You learn who to share views with and from whom to withold them. This is not about keeping secrets. It is about learning to sense where you relate to others and where you do not. It does not generate positive energy to condemn people or to think negative thoughts. Each person has the freedom to think and feel and resolve what he or she chooses. Some people do not desire to resolve issues.