If you hope to find a special person simply to permit you to feel more complete, you would benefit from clarifying for yourself what kind of person you are truly seeking and why.  After all, he or she could enter your life and if you're not prepared, you wouldn't even know it!

1) Expect to meet the person. Such an optimistic view is a fabulous start.  Send out positive energy based on your intentions.  Invite people and opportunity into your life.  Where would you expect to meet?  Note also that if you decide you won't meet this person or, doubt in any way this possibility, it is also self-sabotage. 

2) Believe the real source is internal.  You may choose to make a collage of images from newspapers or magazines that help you clarify your vision. Cut out words or letters that spell out traits, qualities or other details to further clarify your special person. Glue them on paper.   Be honest about what you desire.  Refer to this collage often to reinforce your ideas and make you feel more connected to them. 

3) Grasp that thinking produces form at some level. Imagine the person you desire to meet. What would make him or her meaningful to you?  Your mental pictures can direct the evolution of what matters.  Choose to correct your confusion.  You're responsible for what you think.  This is the level where you exercise choice.  What you do results from your thoughts.  If you choose someone out of fear, this isn't in your best interest.  To be willing to change your mind will change your behavior. 

4) Have faith in magic.  This would imply you believe in creative ability within the Universe that your mind is unable to control.  Recognize events beyond your control can unfold to enrich you, providing you are open to this possibility.  Remind yourself that at every moment, your mind is creating and so is the Universe. 

5) Guard your thoughts carefully.  Realize you deserve love and affection.  Believe you exert influence over the evolution of your life.  Refrain from fear, guilt or any other negative feelings which would lead you to believe otherwise. Thought and belief combine to generate power that influence events beyond your current scope.