Everyday, we're bombarded with instructions from many directions. Institutions, strangers and peers advise us to behave in certain ways, adopt certain beliefs and make certain decisions. Some advice will oppose or contradict other advice. How will you decide to sort through it all and figure out what you really seek from yourself? The implications of your response will be far-reaching.

If you're unable to focus on an area or areas you desire to improve, then it will be very difficult to concentrate and complete things.  If an influx of ideas confuses you about what you should do next, you'd benefit from evaluating your choices systematicall,y and narrowing your priorities. As you come to recognize self-improvement is a process where different actions promote different kinds of personal growth, then you may relax more about the order in which you progress.

You may have heard the idea that life is a particular kind of game and people spend much of their existence grappling with the object to learn the rules. You decide whether you play fair. You decide to create rule or adopt existing rules imposed from outside yourself. Realize that how others suggest you do to improve yourself or your conditions isn't always compatible with your own ideas. If you wonder why people aren't more clear about what they want from you, maybe you could open your senses. The answers will resonate inside. 

Each time you make choices that enable you to feel good about yourself, this implies this is something you want from yourself.  Reading about positive life occurrences that have been experienced by others has potential to open your mind to possibilities of choices all around you. How you evolve to see yourself will determine where and how you desire to change. You must decide for yourself on your baseline, that is, what parts of you, your attitude or self-image will be desirable to overhaul.