1) Avoid regrets. This life is too short to waste energy on what can't be changed. Choose instead to learn and apply your new wisdom to "next time." Your life experiences will forever be enriched by your ability to refer back to lessons learned by yourself and other inspirations.
2) Remain open to learning and changing your beliefs. If you change your beliefs, you influence the root cause of your behavior. Who you were yesterday will not necessarily be who you have evolved into today. Embrace change as a facit of personal growth with joy and gratitude.
3) Teach yourself to be happy in the moment. Remind yourself no 'right or wrong' decision exists, only your perception of what matters at a given time and phase of your life. Savour every feeling, from love to pain. Every feeling offers you a message. How do you learn to intuit?
4) Take every opportunity to get-to-know yourself better . As you learn to listen closely to your inner voice, you'll make choices according to who you really are, not who people lead you to think you are. This soul-searching can also encourage you to develop and deepen a spiritual side.
5) Commit to people and causes. As you do this, it will enable you to believe more in yourself. Distance yourself from perceived needs of "enough" of anything, from thinking you may never get enough money, attention or reciprocity. Choose instead to give unconditionally of yourself in all that you do, from relationships and work to spritual pursuits. You will find unexpected sources of appreciation will bless you by the truckload. You will attract what resonates from within you.