For anyone who has ever written a story and sought to publish it, in all likelihood, that person has also learned what its like to be rejected or kindly turned away.  If you've authored a book and sent out query letters to publishers, you may also know what its like to wait months Perhaps the writer was told that "the time isn't right" or "the material isn't suitable" or "market trends are changing."  Perhaps you didn't receive any details about the rejection. Whatever the reason, this kind of experience is humbling.  Yet, if you permit it, you can choose to learn a great deal.

1.  Don't take rejection personally: learn to step back and see yourself separate from your writing. What other people like or dislike about your writing isn't necessarily personal criticism.

2. Recognize a blessing in disguise: take this opportunity to reflect on your work, rethink or re-edit pieces and re-submit it to publishers. Remind yourself you're better off with a new chance. 

3. Request feedback: in many cases, you can obtain valuable comments from publishers, editors or friends and other people whom you permit to read your material.  Be brave. Ask! 

4. Consult an agent: if you have no agent, it would be in your interest to find someone who respects your work and encourages your writing development. Seek one out. Submit material.

5. Incorporate your spirit: rejection may postpone the unveiling of your true masterpiece.  While you review your work, decide whether you write with your heart or even from the soul.