What if it isn't perceived misfortune or fear of insecurity which requires your attention as much as the impact of surprise on your life? Re-examine the value of surprise in your life. What do you learn? What do you overlook? How is it valuable in ways you hadn't anticipated? Think about the positive side to the element of surprise. Reflect and write about something meaningful you can see in the surprises you have known. They aren't always as bad as you might think!