What is the secret of attraction?

Contrary to popular belief, the secret of attraction cannot be learned.  Still, the idea of this natural force is something humans seek to harness and control. Many people assume its something you can pursue or have and wield like  magical power to turns heads.  Yet, if not that, you may ask what is it that actually influences what and whom you attract?

You may be surprised to hear that the source of your assumed animal magnetism is not what you think.  Sexual prowess relates to confidence, and appreciation of the physical body, but there's more.  Beneath the surface, attraction is an energetic force.  You allow yourself to feel it through acceptance and being aware of something deeper.  Its about raising awareness of a soul connection.

In essence, the source of true power of attraction is to tap into existing mental clarity.  That's right! This is about seeing through what ego tells you attraction is and focusing all faculties and skills to manifest the purpose known deep in the soul.  You know when you are in the presence of someone who lives in the now.  You feel peace and contentment of the universe without doing anything. Be the divine force inherent in us all.

"The secret of attraction is to love yourself. Attractive people judge neither themselves nor others. They are open to gestures of love. They think about love, and express their love in every action. They know that love is not a mere sentiment, but the ultimate truth at the heart of the universe." -Deepak Chopra 

Comments

[Bernie]

One aspect of attraction is if one is purely love, then they are attracted to and experience only loving experiences. However, the word attraction is essentially nullified, because one doesn't draw love to one's self, but lives in a sea of love. To fully love could be seen as being fully integrated and whole. However, if one looks at the world in terms of separation, then one is perpetually attracted to finding that which has been lost or projected out into the world in front of them. A game of hide and seek ensues, sometimes even in a state of not knowing that a game is in motion. One then finds that which was given away. However, one can purposefully project a vision of the future, thereby drawing an event towards the present moment to be experienced. One then enjoys the journey towards an eventual intention of completion. A wish or goal can also be attracted towards a happening. However, in order for it to manifest, one has to live and vibrate consistently at the same paradigm level, dimension, or frequency band that the wish or intention was originally made in. If one falls below this energy level or even rises above this broadcast range, one essentially has switched channels and is no longer available or receptive to receive that which has been asked for.

The true secret may actually be how not to attract anything into one's life by living beyond a charged existence.

[Jannie Funster]

Dearest Liara, this post on attraction reminds me of a song snippet I have remembered and have been singing lately... "The groove is in the heart. The groove is in the heart." A groove which mental clarity supports. And love energy makes dance within us, the joy of being in the now.

Now..... who sings that song I've been hearing the melody of lately? The girl group TLC? Off to Google now...Deee-Lite, that's who sings "Groove Is In The Heart."


xoox

[Liara Covert]

Bernie, your reflections are always appreciated. Indeed, as you feel the energy, and live according to the flow, all the fog clears, no secrets remain and nothing is hidden. Yet, for the benefit of people who choose to exist in a world where some mental filters are still active, and judgements or beliefs cloud vision, this is a reminder other ways exist to experience life. As Jannie implies, go with the flow. The groove or flow is in the heart.

[Liara Covert]

Jannie, that groove is an inroad to feeling who you are, the essence of being.

[Hilary]

Hi Liara .. I am grateful a great soul-mate for my mother is someone who lives in the now - I found her soon after my mother came down - I count her amongst my blessings of the last few years .. she visits 5 times a week - she has been enormously helpful to me in the last 4+ years and I learn from her as I go .. she has much to offer and is just wonderful: my mother loves her as a daughter ... cheers Hilary

[Liara Covert]

Hilary, the love in the heart is felt through the presence of compassion and kindness. Whatever form they take is less relevant than allowing yourself to feel what they are.