Recall the experience of building with blocks or other materials. Recall you always have the option to take apart what you build. You may do so in order to build something else. You may also do so to gain new insight.
Notice how you make choices to create the life you lead. The choices are like building blocks. You build relationships and bridges as you may also dismantle them. You create beliefs and attitudes which also invite you to take them apart so to rediscover where you started and who you really are.