You can choose to continue being busy with yourself or make a different choice. Recognize that what was never lost can never be found. What you never had can never be obtained through pursuit. What would you say to realize you have everything else already?
Some people conclude that the point of being is to reach a state of desirelessness and fearlessness. Yet, they tend to reach this perspective as the result of experiencing what it feels like to create desires and fears. How often do you experience things you do not want in order to build awareness that you do not want to be there? The path to revelation is all about aligning wth Cosmic Synchronicity.