All that you ask for is given. When you are not consciously aware of vibration, you do not allow those things you desire into your experience. When you feel anything other than unconditional love and self-acceptance, you block them in favor of experiencing something else. Every reality emerges due to someone who focuses energy into being. Whatever you give attention to is your truth. As you grow aware of your vibration, you realize nothing emerges as your experience without your energetic invitation.
To accept things as people tell you they are is to block what is freely available to you and to forget your perception, acceptance and resistence begins and ends within. There are no categories. You forget your power when you flow energy in opposing directions. Know loving joy is your core vibration. Be that.