As you open to notice your own predispositions, you are empowered to see through and peel them away. As awareness grows, some people sense the nature of their illusions and realize nothing exists to change. Imagine that.
Some people tend to think optimisitically or pessimistically, one frame of mind at the expense of the other. Reasons exist for every inclination and also why people forget both exist together for balance. Noticing difference and duality is part of the process of sensing intrinsic value in every perspective and merging them back into one.
Each person is invited to discern what is meant to be in the background of consciousness. The mind distorts perception and shifts focus away from unconditional love and acceptance to trap you in visions of self-interest.
Remembering how it feels to be honest draws you to intuit the right response in every situation. This is part of Self-disclosure. Note you are not responsible for reactions of others. Give them strength, love & detachment.