So many people focus on what they lack in part because this is the perceived norm. Ask yourself if this is truly the state of mind you desire to create. You are beginning to realize you are a co-creator, but, of what? How do you choose to re-direct it?
If feeling good is what you prefer, then you need only learn to notice when something does not feel right and choose to shift your energy vibration. To consciously notice thought patterns is a step toward altering the beliefs that create them.
As you desire to align with what is, this invites you create compatible beliefs. This affects frequency. Consider how your life transforms as you project these thoughts alone;
1) what you require comes easily. (scarcity & limits dissolve)
2) You project realities you desire. (completeness exists now)
3) You discern everyone is equally important. (no conflict)
4) You can reprogram the mind. (eliminate unhealthy habits)
5) You know balance and abundance. ("lack" just fades)
6) You have soul purpose (superficial beliefs lose meaning)
7) You hold wisdom to shift awareness (reclaim inner power)
8) You know what you believe is projected (sadness blocks joy)