Human beings often mistakenly believe that they are their choices. In reality, individual choices do not reflect who you are. You are not your lunch. You are not your job. You are not your partner. You are not the book you are reading. This is part of a process of learning to see through your choices.
You get stuck when you assume external things are you. As you dissolve the fear of separating from or losing these things you feel are you, then you start creating or, focus more inner energy on creating. You shift the flow of energy to permit your true self to blossom. The nature of your thoughts and feelings invites you to set yourself free. How do youbegin the process?
1) Trust that every choice is a teacher. Some emotions are based on misunderstanding. Those that promote love are real.
2)Engage mind and spirit to co-create. Take responsibility. Be willing to follow the direction guided by intuition.
3) Reconnect with your core self. Distance yourself from any person or situation that evokes negative energy inside you.
4) Be aware of beliefs and effects. Release what does not serve you. Recognize thoughts and feelings shape your destiny.