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The gift to give back to the world is the release of one's personal tensions. If one is triggered by something, there is tension that needs resolving. If one takes sides, there is tension. If one holds back, there is tension. One can look at tension and physical, mental, and emotional pains as a gift or indicator that issues are ready to be resolved. They are coming to the surface from a place of repression to be seen with new eyes. By processing the past through reviewing one's life, one can relive key events of conflict and observe the relativity of the situation. No one was right or wrong. Learn to empathize. Therefore, all can be forgiven where energy is then freed up to the present moment, thereby creating a ripple effect upon the globe, and within the earth and universe its self. Pull up the anchors and you can float away upon the calm seas of love.

What I found that works best for me in life regarding giving to others is:
Give as much as you can and the universe will pay you back. Never expect others to give you back, since by expecting you are secretly demanding and that is something people have aversion to.
Giving freely is a joy and a big gift. I takes time to practice, just like smiling and laughing without reason, though the effort pays off eventually.
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Thank you for the question.
Aviad

Also, it's like if a person hold expectations of how the world should work, or family and friends should behave, and if one gives up such notions, then they give the earth and other individuals the breathing room to expand and to manifest their dreams. Therefore, if we learn to relax and walk into a room, then the other components or people in the room will automatically relax and express more of themselves. So by minding our inner world, we set free the outer world to follow their feelings.