For example, I spoke with a financially-successful businessman in his early twenties. He made some smart investment deals and then became involved in retail. His business partner is Indian (born abroad). This partner's mother has decided the business partners will take a trip with her to India to find suitable wives.
Consider that these men have different ideas of business success and also about their respective personal lives. New facets of success may or may grow out of their upcoming trip. Neither man truly desires to go for the same reasons, and both have agreed to go for reasons other than those initially intended by one business partner's mother.
Each person, when viewing success, may have an ulterior motive, a secret dream unknown to others. Would you share how you really feel? The individuals in this scenario who plan their trip to India may well discover they will have gone for reasons unknown to them even before their departure. Time will tell and your intuition leaves clues.
Some dreams are dormant. Some dreams are waiting. Some dreams are created from the moment you conjure thoughts. Do it your way. You'll make the right decision for you at the right time.