Retirement goals
Wednesday, February 21, 2007 at 10:55PM Each of us knows family or friends who are approaching and experiencing retirement. You may even be living this kind of life transition yourself. What is it about goals that change over time? This is only natural when your physical, emotional and other abilities are evolving too. Know that whenever somethign seems to end, somethign else is beginning.
I know a man who fears not finding enough to do during his retirement. To ensure he keeps busy, he collects boxes of old papers and electric items past their prime, with the intention of sorting and repairing. This man certainly has more than enough to do to fill his perceived time. Still, he fears what retirement represents: change of routine, a loss of professional identity, apparent aging, thoughts he makes less of a contribution to society and is then less valued. Does this ring true for you?
Everyone is invited to realize lif continues as long as you allow it. Notice whether you see who you are is reflected in what you do. In truth, nothing that is changing actually reveals who you are but only points to it. Imagine what life feels like as you sense that everything is helping you accept yourself as you are.
I know another man who retired in his thirties because of achieving financial freedom. From that moment on, he decided to focus his time on training for elite triathalon competitions and assisting other people to achieve financial freedom. He chose to see retirement as an opportunity to better himself, physically, emotionally, that he had nothing to lose to work hard to get there and everything to gain. He embraces each day and sees it as filled with new opportunities.
I know a woman who doesn't plan to retire until her health gives out. She takes high blood pressure medication and often puffs when she climbs the stairs. She collects movies with plans to watch most of them during retirement, yet she has little time now and feels too many people need her services to let them down. She works full time and cares for her two aged parents. Her goals are to accomplish as much as she for as many people as she can in the time she's got.
I know another man who retired from a career in the church in his 50s in order to put his experience to use as a counsellor. He chose to begin a second career, fall in love, get married and have a family. When he outlived his wife, he married again. He also encouraged himself to write a book to help others. He continues to visit friends and keeps busy to stay motivated. Among his goals, he would like to live long enough to know his first grandchild.
I know a woman who's hospital staff colleagues gave her a retirement going away part and a ticket for a cruise. When she returns from the trip with her husband, she'll decide what's next.
I know another man who is still working well into his seventies because he can't afford to retire. He doesn't receive a pension. Throughout his life, he lived from paycheck to paycheck and never learned how to save. In fact, sometimes he spent more than he earned. His children grew up and moved away and his wife died already. Now he has to fend for himself.
When it comes to your retirement goals, you benefit from defining what you desire and by a specific timeline. If time is the commodity you seek more of, it makes sense to plan what you would do with it so you'll be prepared. When you ask other people or society for what you want in the form of opportunities, they may not simply hand these things over. You need to be ready to act and also make sacrifices.
Retirement is then, a state of mind that embraces life transitions with grace and gratitude. As you reflect, this may represent more time to do those things you've always wanted to do or more time on the golf course. It may mean you simply decide how to re-organize your time in ways that give you new purpose. Know purpose is always evolving with you. To nourish a zest for life means you life life to the fullest regardless of what you do and for how long. You stop measuring and focus on enjoying.
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Reader Comments (2)
That is an interesting one about the man getting married and having a family in his 50s...And kind of sad about the 70 year old who didn't put any money aside.
All going to prove we create our own worlds. We bring to us what we have.
xoxo
I like the case of the monk who connects with core peaceful state of mind. He has no reriement savings, no fear about what may or may not happen. He simply focuses on joy in this moment. Imagine what life is like as everyone simply focuses on joy, on what they are and not on what they have or do not have. Imagine well-being and love are all that exist.